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　　Nowadays it seems more and more college students choose to get married while t

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问题 　　Nowadays it seems more and more college students choose to get married while they are still in school, and the phenomenon has attracted lots of attention. From the excerpts, you can find that others advocate it while others express their concern. Write an article of NO LESS THAN 300 WORDS, in which you should, and then
　　1.   summarize briefly the different opinions, and then
　　2.   give your comment.
　　Excerpt 1
　　Freedom to Marry
　　China’s Ministry of Education lifted the ban on college students getting married years ago. Currently students of legal age no longer have to ask for permission from their universities when they plan to tie the knot.
　　Fan, who graduated from Xi’an University of Architecture and Technology last year, said she was lucky to have been studying at a time when the ban was lifted. "Otherwise, I would have had to make a choice between marriage and study. "
　　She met her future husband when she was studying at the university. She said that when she got married she did not have any trouble with her university. " I just had to hand in my application. I told my teachers and classmates I was getting married and all of them wished me a happy marriage. "
　　Lao Kaisheng, director-general of the National Research Society of Education Policies and Laws, welcomed the cancellation of the restriction.
　　"It had infringed the civil rights of undergraduates who should have enjoyed the same freedom to marry as other Chinese citizens after reaching the legal age," said Lao, who is also a professor at Capital Normal University in Beijing.
　　"It’s good to see that the Ministry of Education canceled the restriction and made student management regulations at universities comply with the law," he said.
　　Excerpt 2
　　Multiple Challenges
　　University couples who marry may face a wide range of challenges, from setting a common goal for life to learning how to understand and tolerate each other.
　　This calls for young couples to address the situation with skill and wisdom, according to Zhou, a Chongqing resident, who asked to be identified as Xiao—her surname.
　　"But young undergraduates are immature and lack enough experience to handle such issues, which may lead to marital crisis or even divorce," she said. Her university marriage failed for this reason. The 21-year-old girl married a man two years older than her in 2009, when she was a junior student at a university in Chongqing.
　　"He was a cousin of my roommate at the university," she said. " He treated me well and took good care of me. I was moved, and agreed to marry him. "
　　But the marriage lasted for just six months. At the beginning of the fourth year at university, the woman ended the unhappy union, saying it resulted from the pressure imposed by her husband.
　　"He would make repeated telephone calls to me when I hung out with friends to ensure that I was not with a man. We quarreled a lot over this," Xiao said, adding that her former husband had not behaved like this before they married.
　　Because of her experience, Xiao has a negative view of undergraduates marrying while at college, saying, "As undergraduates, they are 100 young to understand marriage. "
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答案 　　                                   Should College Students Get Married?
　　According to the newly revised Chinese Marriage Law, undergraduates are entitled the right to get married. But whether college students should get married or not is still under debate. Some hold a positive view. They argue that they don’t need to make a choice between marriage and study. However, others think it more negative than positive for college students to get married on campus. As far as I am concerned, weighing the arguments of both sides, I disapprove of marriage in college.
　　Someone splits the word "marry" into four parts. M stands for "material", A for "appreciation", two Rs for "responsibility" and "reliability", and Y for "not easy to say ’Yes. ’ " This saying makes sense.
　　First and foremost, we need to realize that sweet whispers of love are not enough in a marriage. Marriage is not building castles in the air but it needs material support. Being the economic basis of marriage, "material" is essential for marriage life. But the fact is that most college students, who themselves have not been financially independent from their parents, are far from fully prepared to provide material goods for their spouses, not to mention their children. Secondly, an early marriage during college life is not always a wise one, because the one you love in college may not be your suitable "better half" in marriage. College students, though mostly adults, are actually immature psychologically. Their wishes to get married are, more often than not, impulsive. However, a durable happy union should be based on a true sense of "appreciation" and mutual understanding after the fever of campus love cools down. Thirdly, in view of what is said above, it’s difficult for college students to shoulder the marital "responsibility", and thus the "reliability" of marriage is out of the question.
　　In sum, it is not easy to say "Yes" before you decide to love one person forever. Marriage is too big a decision for college students to risk without careful thought, so think twice before you leap.
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