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The stress of organising a big wedding can leave many couples at breaking po

游客2024-03-07  58
问题     The stress of organising a big wedding can leave many couples at breaking point, as they battle to coordinate a celebration on a scale which would tax even professional event planners.
    But couples wrestling with 150-seat table plans should take heart, for new research suggests that bigger weddings predict more successful marriages.
    Although cynics may argue that people who can afford an opulent (奢华的) wedding are likely to be financially secure, and therefore happier, the researchers claim that the correlation remains even when controlling for wealth.
    They believe that marrying in front of a large number of people demonstrates greater commitment to the union while also discouraging divorce.
    "There is some reason to believe that having more witnesses at a wedding may actually strengthen marital quality," said lead author Dr. Galena Rhoades.
    "We try to keep our present attitudes and behaviours in line with our past conduct. The desire for consistency is likely enhanced by public expressions of intention.
    "Weddings may foster support for the new marriage from within a couple’s network of friends and family. Those who hold a formal wedding are likely to have stronger social networks in the first place."
    The report is part of the ongoing National Marriage Project in the US which has been studying what makes marriages work since 1997.
    The survey of 418 people found that only 30 percent of couples who had 50 or fewer guests at the wedding had highly-successful marriages. In contrast, nearly half (47 percent) of couples who had 150 guests or more had strong unions.
    National Marriage Project director Brad Wilcox added: "Couples with larger networks of friends and family may have more help, and encouragement, in navigating the challenges of married life."
    The research also discovered that couples who had fewer partners before marriage were happier and more content. Having several relationships before getting married may lead couples to compare their current partners with former lovers, the authors warn.
    "We generally think that having more experience is better. If you were hiring an architect, for example, you would want to hire an architect with more, not less, experience to build your house," said Dr. Rhoades.
    "But what we find for relationships is just the opposite. Having more experience was related to having a less happy marriage.
    "Having more relationship experience may lead to a greater sense of what the alternatives are. If you have a greater sense of other options it may be harder to invest in, or commit to a marriage."
    The researchers call it the "Vegas Fallacy"—not everything that happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas, they warn.
    "The past does not always stay in the past" added Dr. Rhoades. [br] Why couples who had fewer partners before marriage were happier?
选项 A、They are less likely to keep in touch with their former lovers.
B、They are more willing to invest in and commit to marriage.
C、They tend to have more faith in each other.
D、They have more confidence in themselves.
答案 B
解析 推断题。根据题干中的had fewer partners before marriage were happier定位到原文第十一段，该段及其后面的段落对结婚之前恋爱次数较少的夫妻进行了论述。第十四段中引用DL Rhoades的话指出，恋爱经验丰富的人可能会更懂得给自己留回旋的余地。如果你总是觉得还有别的选择，那就会更难去投入或恪守婚姻。由此可以推知，恋爱次数少的夫妻之所以婚姻更加幸福，也在于他们更加愿意去投入和恪守婚姻，B项表述正确，故选B。其他几项在原文中并未提及。
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