首页
登录
职称英语
(1) Attachment Parenting is not Indulgent Parenting. Attachment parents do n
(1) Attachment Parenting is not Indulgent Parenting. Attachment parents do n
游客
2023-10-22
45
管理
问题
(1) Attachment Parenting is not Indulgent Parenting. Attachment parents do not "spoil" their children. Spoiling is done when a child is given everything that they want regardless of what they need and regardless of what is practical. Indulgent parents give toys for tantrums (发脾气), ice cream for breakfast. Attachment parents don’t give their children everything that they want, they give their children everything that they need. Attachment parents believe that love and comfort are free and necessary. Not sweets or toys.
(2) Attachment Parenting is not "afraid of tears" parenting. Our kids cry. The difference is that we understand that tantrums and tears come from emotions and not manipulation. And our children understand this too. They cry and have tantrums sometimes, of course. But they do this because their emotions are so overwhelming that they need to get it out. They do not expect to be "rewarded" for their strong negative emotions; they simply expect that we will listen. We pick up our babies when they cry, and we respond to the tears of our older children because we believe firmly that comfort is free, love is free, and that when a child has need for comfort and love, it is our job to provide those things. We are not afraid of tears. We don’t avoid them. We hold our children through them and teach them that when they are hurt or frustrated we are here to comfort them and help them work through their emotions.
(3) Attachment Parenting is not Clingy Parenting. I do not cling to my children. In fact, I’m pretty free-range. As soon as they can move they usually move away from me and let me set up a chase as they crawl, run, skip and hop on their merry way to explore the world. Sure, I carry them and hug them and chase them and kiss them and rock them and sleep with them. But this is not me following them everywhere and pulling them back to me. This is me being a home base. The "attachment" comes from their being allowed to attach to us, not from us attaching to them like parental leeches.
(4) Attachment Parenting is not Selfish Parenting. It is also not selfless parenting. We are not doing it for us, and we are not doing it to torment ourselves.
(5) Attachment parenting is not Helicopter Parenting. I don’t hover, I supervise, I follow, I teach, I demonstrate, I explain. I don’t slap curious hands away. I show how to do things safely. I let my child do the things that my child wishes to do, first with help and then with supervision and finally with trust. I don’t insist that my 23 month old hold my hand when we walk on the sidewalk because I know that I can recall him with my voice because he trusts me to allow him to explore and he trusts me to explain when something is dangerous and to help him satisfy his curiosities safely.
(6) Most of the negative things that I hear about "attachment parents" are completely off-base and describe something that is entirely unlike Attachment Parenting. Attachment Parenting is child-centric and focuses on the needs of the child. Children need structure, rules, and boundaries. Attachment Parents simply believe that the child and the parent are allies, not adversaries. And that children are taught, not trained. [br] What does "free-range" mean according to the passage?
选项
A、Willing to give kids freedom of movement.
B、Ready to play games with my kids.
C、Curious to watch what games they play.
D、Fond of providing a home base.
答案
A
解析
词汇题。作者的flee—range是指她给予孩子自由行动的空间。故选A。
转载请注明原文地址:https://tihaiku.com/zcyy/3120635.html
相关试题推荐
Whichofthefollowingitalicizedpartsservesasacomplement?A、Myparentsalwa
Parentstendtosendtheirchildrentoexpensivekindergarten.Lookatthef
Parentstendtosendtheirchildrentoexpensivekindergarten.Lookatthef
Hisparentsbelievedthathewasacleverboy,buthewasn’t_____infact.A、kin
Wewillneverfailto______whatourparentsexpectofus.A、liveonB、livewith
Manystudentsrelyontheirparentsondailylifeissuesevenwhentheylive
Shouldyoungpeoplecontinuetolivewiththeirparentsafterfindingajob?
Myparentsthoughtitwas______foragirltobeinterestedinfootball.A、abnor
Nowmanyparentsaresendingtheirsonsanddaughterstosingle-sexschools
[originaltext]M:[7]JulieRossistheauthorofPracticalParenting.Shehasbe
随机试题
MostofthepeoplewhoarevisitingBritain_____aboutthefoodandweatherthe
A
修改后的《证券法》于2006年1月1日起正式实施,将原《公司法》中的有关( )
廖某委托甲房地产经纪机构(以下称甲机构)寻找房源,并签订了房地产经纪服务合同,后
胆碱能神经合成与释放的递质是A.氨甲酰胆碱 B.胆碱 C.烟碱 D.乙酰胆
A. B. C. D.
自然灾害发生并启动自然灾害救助应急响应时,县级以上人民政府采取的应急救助措施有(
下列关于检查风险的说法中,错误的是( )。A.检查风险是指注册会计师未能通过审
在耐火陶瓷纤维内衬上施工不定形耐火材料时,其表面应做( )。A、绝热处理 B
水运工程施工过程中,因甲承包商的分包商施工延误,导致乙承包商不能按已批准的进度计
最新回复
(
0
)