Perhaps the myth of the perfect communicator comes from believing too stro

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问题       Perhaps the myth of the perfect communicator comes from believing too strongly in novels, television, or films. In these places we are treated to descriptions of such characters as the perfect mate or child, the totally controlled and gregarious host, and the incredibly competent professional. While these images are certainly appealing, it’s inevitable that we will come up short when com-pared to them. Once you accept the belief that it’s desirable and possible to be a perfect communicator, the thought follows that people won’t appreciate you if you are imperfect. Admitting one’s mistakes, saying "I don’t know," or sharing feelings of uncertainty or discomfort become social defects when viewed in this manner. Given the desire to be valued and appreciated, it is a temptation to try at least to appear perfect. Thus, many people assemble a veriety of social masks, hoping that if they can fool others into thinking that they are perfect, perhaps they’ll find acceptance. The costs of such deception are high. If others ever detect that this veneer of confidence is a false one, then the actor is seen as a phony, and regarded accordingly. Even ff the unassertive actor’s role of confidence does go undetected, such a performance uses hus makes the rewards of approval less enjoyable.  [br] According to this passage, the description of perfect may ______.

选项 A、disappoint people
B、deceive people
C、change people’s opinion
D、affect people’s communicative behaviour

答案 D

解析 文章第五行指出:一旦你认为做一个完美的传播者是令人羡慕的和可行的,如果你表表现的不完美,别人就不会认同你。选项D“对完美的描述影响人们的实际行为”与此相符。
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