It is natural for young people to be critical of their parents at times and

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问题     It is natural for young people to be critical of their parents at times and to blame them for most of the misunderstandings between them. They have always complained, more or less justly, that their parents are out of touch with modem ways; that they are possessive and dominant (有支配力的,卓越的); that they do not trust their children to deal with crisis; that they talk too much about certain problems—and that they have no sense of humor, at least in parent-child relationships.
    I think it is tree that parents often underestimate their teenage children and also forget how they themselves felt when young.
    Young people often irritate(使发怒) their parents with their choices in clothes and hairstyles, in entertainers and music. This is not their motive. They feel cut off from the adult world into which they have not yet been accepted. So they create a culture and society of their own. Then, ff it turns out that their music or entertainers or vocabulary or clothes or hairstyles irritate their parents, this gives them additional  enjoyment. They feel they are superior, at least in a small way, and that they are leaders in style and taste.
    Sometimes you are resistant, and proud because you do not want your parents to approve of what you do. If they did approve, it looks as if you are betraying your own age group. But in that case, you are assuming that you are the underdog(夫败者,处于劣势的人); you can’t win but at least you can keep your honor. This is a passive way of childhood, when you were completely under your parents’ control. But it ignores the fact that you are now beginning to be responsible for yourself.
    If you plan to control your life, co-operation can be part of that plan. You can charm others, especially your parents, into doing firings the way you want. You can impress others with your sense of responsibility and initiative, so that they will give you the authority to do what you want to do. [br] To improve parent-child relationships, teenagers are, advised to be______.

选项 A、obedient
B、responsible
C、co-operative
D、independent

答案 C

解析 细节题。本题问的是:为了改善父母和孩子之间的关系,作者建议青少年应该 ______。依据文章最后一段第1句“If you plan to control your life,co-operation can be part of that plan”可知,如果青少年想要摆脱父母的控制,并且不和父母发生冲突,就必须学会与父母沟通协作。故选C 。
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