首页
登录
职称英语
You must have been troubled by when to say "I love you" because it is one of
You must have been troubled by when to say "I love you" because it is one of
游客
2024-01-15
23
管理
问题
You must have been troubled by when to say "I love you" because it is one of the greatest puzzles in our life.
What if you say it first and your partner doesn’t love you back? Or if they do say it, but you don’t feel they mean it? Being the first to declare your love can be very nervous and risk-y and can leave you feeling as vulnerable as a turtle with no shell. But is the person who says it first really in a position of weakness? Doesn’t it pay to hold back, play it cool and wait until the other half has shown their hand fast?
"A really good relationship should be about being fair and being equal, " says psychologist Sidney Crown. "But love is seldom equal. " All relationships go through power struggles but, he says, if a love imbalance continues for years, the trouble will set in. "That feeling of ’I’ve always loved you more’ may be subverted(破坏)for a time, but it never goes away completely and it often emerges in quarreling." In love, at least, the silent, withholding type is not always the most powerful. "The strongest one in a relationship is often the person who feels confident enough to talk about their feelings," says educational psychologist Ingrid Collins. Psychosexual therapist Paula Hall agrees, "The one
with the upper hand
is often the person who takes the initiative. In fact, the person who says ’I love you’ first may also be the one who says ’I’m bored with you’ first." Hall believes that much depends on how "I love you" is said and the motivation of the person saying it. "Is it said when they’re drunk? Is it said before their partner sets off on holiday, and what it really means is ’please don’t be unfaithful to me’? By saying ’I love you’ , they are really saying ’Do you love me?’ If so, wouldn’t it just be more honest to say that?" Collins agrees that intention is everything. "It’s not what is said, but how it’s said. What it comes down to is the sincerity of the speaker." [br] What is the most important for you to consider when somebody say "I love you" to you?
选项
A、The intention.
B、The place.
C、The time.
D、The determination.
答案
A
解析
本题属于事实细节题,提问的是当别人向你说“我爱你”的时候,你最需要考虑的是什么。从第三段末“Collins agrees that intention is everything”以及Collins的话语中可以分析出,是你的动机决定一切。“重要的不在于说话的内容而在于说话的方式。归根到底是说话人的真诚”。所以答案为A)。
转载请注明原文地址:https://tihaiku.com/zcyy/3364256.html
相关试题推荐
It()measanuphillbattle,simplybecauseitisanawkwardandtime-consuming
Itisbecauseheiskindandmodest()hewinstherespectofothers.A、whatB、whi
It()measanuphillbattle,simplybecauseitisanawkwardandtime-consuming
NeitherJanenorTed________goingtomeetProfessorJonesnextFridaybecausebo
Iimmediately________Luke’sfatherfromthecrowdbecausetheytwolookedlikee
Itisbecausesheistooinexperienced______shedoesnotknowhowtodealwitht
Lastyearhelearned______hehadexpectedbecauseheworkedalotharder.A、twice
A:Youlookunhappy.【D1】______B:Oh,justbecauseofmyparents.Theyarealway
A:Youlookunhappy.【D1】______B:Oh,justbecauseofmyparents.Theyarealway
A:Youlookunhappy.【D1】______B:Oh,justbecauseofmyparents.Theyarealway
随机试题
Theaimoftheagreementisto______.[originaltext]TheCanadianpolicesa
[originaltext]W:HeyTaxi!M:Whereto?W:Well,I’mgoingtotheNationalMu
下列观点中,属于主观唯心主义的是()。A.存在就是被感知 B.上帝创造世界
编制工程量清单出现计算规范附录中未包括的清单项目时,编制人应作补充,下列有关编制
下列建筑装饰涂料中,常用于外墙的涂料是()。A.醋酸乙烯-丙烯酸酯有光乳液涂料
电缆终端尾管应采用()方式,并加装铜编织线连接尾管和金属护套。(A)封铅(B
通常,股价的变化要()发行公司盈利的变化。A:先于 B:同时于 C:
取得教学成功的内因是()。 A.教师的主导作用B.学校的管理作用 C.教
验收资料的制备由项目法人统一组织,验收资料应具有()。A.真实性、完整性、历史
倒虹吸管宜采用钢筋混凝土或混凝土圆管,进出水口必须设置()。A.锥坡 B.竖
最新回复
(
0
)