首页
登录
职称英语
Research on friendship has established a number of facts, some interesting, some
Research on friendship has established a number of facts, some interesting, some
游客
2023-12-30
41
管理
问题
Research on friendship has established a number of facts, some interesting, some even useful. Did you know that the average student has five to six friends, or that a friend who was previously an enemy is liked more than one who has always been on the right side? Would you believe that physically attractive individuals are preferred as friends to those less
comely
, and is it fair that physically attractive defendants are less likely to be found guilty in court? Unfortunately, such titbits do not tell us much more about the nature or the purpose of friendship.
In fact, studies of friendship seem to implicate more complex factors. For example, one function friendship seems to fulfill is that it supports the image we have of ourselves, and confirms the value of the attitudes we hold. Certainly we appear to project ourselves onto our friends; several studies have shown that we judge them to be more like us than they (objectively) are. This suggests that we ought to choose friends who are similar to us ("birds of a feather") rather than those who would be complementary ("opposites attract"). In our experiment, some developing friendships were monitored amongst first-year students living in the same hostel. It was found that similarity of attitudes (toward politics, religion and ethics, pastimes and aesthetics) was a good predictor of what friendships would be established by the end of the four months, though it had less to do with initial alliances—not surprisingly, since attitudes may not be obvious on first inspection.
There have also been studies of pairings, both voluntary (married couples) and forced (student roommates), to see who remained together and who split up. Again, the evidence seems to favor similarity rather than complementarity as an omen of a successful relationship, though there is a complication: when marriage is concerned, once the field has been narrowed down to potential mates who come from similar backgrounds and share a broad range of attitudes and values, a degree of complementarity seems to become desirable. When a couple is not just similar but almost identical, something else seems to be needed. Similarity can breed contempt; it has also been found that when we find others
obnoxious
, we dislike them more if they are like us than when they are dissimilar.
The difficulty of linking friendship with similarity of personality probably reflects the complexity of our personalities: we have many facets and therefore require a
disparate
group of friends to support us. This, of course, can explain why we may have two close friends who have little in common and indeed dislike each other. By and large, though, it looks as though we would do well to choose friends (and spouses) who resemble us. If this were not so, computer dating agencies would have gone out of business years ago. [br] The experiment conducted on students living in a hostel suggested that __.
选项
A、in the long run, people got on better with those resembling them
B、it was impossible to predict what friendships would develop
C、students immediately recognized others with similar attitudes and interests
D、students split up as soon as they discovered differences in attitudes
答案
A
解析
第2段末句暗示,在宗教、娱乐、美学等方面持有相同观点的学生,更可能发展出更好的友谊,故A“长期来看,人们与那些跟自己相似的人相处得更好”。符合文意。第2段末句指出观点相似度能很好预测友谊的发展,故B“无法预测友谊会如何发展”与文意相悖。C“学生迅速认出与他们具有相同态度和兴趣的人”,文中提到一开始态度并不明显,故C也错误。D“一发现观点不同,学生就迅速决裂”,文中无提及。
转载请注明原文地址:https://tihaiku.com/zcyy/3318492.html
相关试题推荐
Recentevidencehastendedtobecontrarytoestablishedtheoriesonthissubjec
Researchonanimalintelligencealwaysmakesmewonderjusthowsmarthumans
Researchonanimalintelligencealwaysmakesmewonderjusthowsmarthumans
Researchonanimalintelligencealwaysmakesmewonderjusthowsmarthumans
Researchonanimalintelligencealwaysmakesmewonderjusthowsmarthumans
Researchonanimalintelligencealwaysmakesmewonderjusthowsmarthumans
Researchonanimalintelligencealwaysmakesmewonderjusthowsmarthumans
Researchonanimalintelligencealwaysmakesmewonderjusthowsmarthumans
Researchonanimalintelligencealwaysmakesmewonderjusthowsmarthumans
Researchonanimalintelligencealwaysmakesmewonderjusthowsmarthumans
随机试题
TheGreekshaveasecondBattleof.Marathonontheirhands.Theiradversarie
关于施工准备阶段的环境保护监理工作,说法正确的有( )。A.增加设计交底,熟悉环
《隔离开关分合闸位置“双确认”改造技术规范》中姿态传感系统,传感器与开关的联合检
在进行组织结构诊断时要分析组织关系,应清楚()。A:某个单位应同哪些单位和个人发
资本主义经济危机是生产相对过剩的危机,这个“相对”的对象是 A.劳动者的社会需
人在每一瞬间,将心理活动选择了某些对象而忽略了另一些对象。这一特点指的是注意的(
自身财务规划能力强的客户适用的还款方式是()。A.等额本金还款法 B.等
A.毛茛科 B.木通科 C.豆科 D.马兜铃科 E.茜草科降香原植物属于
(2020年真题)某企业A部门采用一一对比法对4名员工进行绩效考核,考核情况如下
下列不属于绩效考核的功能的是()。A.管理功能 B.心理援助功能 C.监控
最新回复
(
0
)