When I was growing up, I was embarrassed to be seen with my father. He was s

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问题     When I was growing up, I was embarrassed to be seen with my father. He was severely crippled and very short, and when we would walk together, his hand on my arm for balance, people would stare. I would inwardly squirm at the unwanted attention. If he ever noticed or was bothered, he never let on.
    It was difficult to coordinate our steps—his halting, mine impatient—and because of that, we didn’t say much as we went along. But as we started out, he always said, "You set the pace. I will try to adjust to you. "
    Our usual walk was to or from the subway, which was how he got to work. He went to work sick, and despite nasty weather. He almost never missed a day, and would make it to the office even if others could not. A matter of pride.
    When snow or ice was on the ground, it was impossible for him to walk, even with help. At such times my sisters or I would pull him through the streets of Brooklyn, NY, on a child’s sleigh to the subway entrance. Once there, he would cling to the handrail until he reached the lower steps that the warmer tunnel air kept ice-free. In Manhattan the subway station was the basement of his office building, and he would not have to go outside again until we met him in Brooklyn on his way home.
    When I think of it now, I marvel at how much courage it must have taken for a grown man to subject himself to such indignity and stress. And at how he did it—without bitterness or complaint.
    He never talked about himself as an object of pity, nor did he show any envy of the more fortunate or able. What he looked for in others was a "good heart" , and if he found one, the owner was good enough for him.
    Now that I am older, I believe that is a proper standard by which to judge people, even though I still don’t know precisely what a "good heart" is. But I know the times I don’t have one myself.
    Unable to engage in many activities, my father still tried to participate in some way. When a local sandlot baseball team found itself without a manager, he kept it going. He was a knowledgeable baseball fan and often took me to Ebbets Field to see the Brooklyn Dodgers play. He liked to go to dances and parties, where he could have a good time just sitting and watching.
    On one memorable occasion a fight broke out at a beach party, with everyone punching and shoving. He wasn’t content to sit and watch, but he couldn’t stand unaided on the soft sand. In frustration he began to shout,"I’ll fight anyone who will sit down with me!"
    Nobody did. But the next day people kidded him by saying it was the first time any fighter was urged to take a dive even before the bout began.
    I now know he participated in some things vicariously through me, his only son. When I played ball(poorly),he "played" too. When I joined the Navy he "joined" too. And when I came home on leave, he saw to it that I visited his office. Introducing me, he was really saying, "This is my son, but it is also me, and I could have done this, too, if things had been different. " Those words were never said.
    He has been gone many years now, but I think of him often. I wonder if he sensed my reluctance to be seen with him during our walks. If he did, I am sorry I never told him how sorry I was, how unworthy I was, how I regretted it. I think of him when I complain about trifles, when I am envious of another’s good fortune, when I don’t have a "good heart".
    At such times I put my hand on his arm to regain my balance, and say, "You set the pace. I will try to adjust to you. " [br] We can infer from the passage that______.

选项 A、the author and his father finally came to terms with each other
B、the author regretted having complained about trifles in the face of his father
C、the author began to realize that his father meant a lot to him
D、the author now asks his father to set the pace while taking a walk

答案 C

解析 推理判断题。根据倒数第一、二段可知,文中提到父亲已去世多年,而在写这篇文章时作者是怀着忏悔和思念的心情去写的,可见,作者现在感到sorry,unworthy以及regretted,再根据倒数第二段最后一句可知,当作者为琐事抱怨时,当作者嫉妒别人的好运时,当作者没有一副“好心肠”时,作者就会想到父亲,可见,父亲的影响之大,故[C]正确。在父亲生前,作者更多的是不理解父亲,到底有没有接受父亲,文中未提及,故排除[A];[B]“作者后悔在父亲面前抱怨琐事”是对原文I think of him when I complain about trifles…的曲解,故排除;[D]“现在作者在散步的时候需要父亲设定自己走路的步伐”是对文章最后一段字面意思的曲解,原文是说遇到生活中不如意时他需要父亲的指点,而不是真让已故的父亲设定自己走路的步伐,故排除。
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