首页
登录
职称英语
Emotional maturity means knowing that another person cannot fill up the hole
Emotional maturity means knowing that another person cannot fill up the hole
游客
2023-09-14
27
管理
问题
Emotional maturity means knowing that another person cannot fill up the hole in your heart. That is your responsibility. You need to love and affirm yourself day - by - day, moment - by - moment. That is the spiritual challenge of your life and everybody’ s life. Without your love for yourself, nothing works. No amount of love from your partner is enough. The search for love from other people is like the alcoholic’ s search for happiness in a bottle. The more he drinks, the less satisfied he feels and the more he wants to drink.
We are all addicted to falling in love. But after we’ ve "fallen" a few times and broken our emotional bones, we hopefully wise up a bit. We know that the high of falling in love is not going to last. We know that sooner or later we will have to get real with each other. That is the difference between romance and partnership. Romance is an attempt to keep the addiction going. It has a very short half- life. Partnership is the dance of two ordinary people learning to live together day by day. It is a very challenging school that we enroll in. It is sometimes a lot more work than play. And it certainly requires a lot more psychological adjustment than years of therapy! We don’ t just graduate from this school in a year or two. It takes many years, perhaps even a lifetime, for us to master the curriculum.
Your partners are imperfect human beings, just like you. They were not the "wrong" partners any more than you were. Probably, they reflected your own level of realism and emotional maturity. That’ s usually the way it works. So don’t waste your time thinking you simply made some bad choices. The only bad choice you made was forgetting who has the full time job loving you. I know that you know who this is !
We keep remembering that they are not perfect, nor we are. Love is not a game of perfection. It is a game of overwhelming imperfection. The amazing thing is that love survives all of our mistaken attempts to control our partners and our relationships. [br] It can be inferred from the passage that______.
选项
A、the more we try to control our partners and relationships, the better we can enjoy love
B、the more frequently we fall in love, the more intelligent we’ll be
C、the more emotionally mature a couple are, the more harmonious they will live
D、it’s unrealistic for you to search for true love from others
答案
C
解析
C选项最符合原文中心意思,因此为正确答案。 A选项意思在原文中并没有出现,B选项歪曲了原文第二段第二句:But after we’ve“fallen”a few times and broken our e- motional bones,we hopefully wise up a bit.表达的意思。D选项意思也超出了原文。故A,B,D均为错误答案。
转载请注明原文地址:https://tihaiku.com/zcyy/3014123.html
相关试题推荐
Shoppersusuallymakerationaldecisionabouttheirpurchases.[br]Knowingthe
WhenCandDareestablished,workersintheseindustries______.[br]Wecannot
Apersonwhobelievesthatheisincapablewillnotmakearealeffort,beca
Thusthelimitsofaperson’sintelligence___________________(取决于他所处的生活环境).will
【S1】[br]【S3】other→another从上个分句中的onepiece和下个分句中的thenext可知,这是在进行三者之间的比较,anothe
Menarenotoriouslyinsensitivetotheemotionalworldaroundthem.Atleast
Theconceptofpersonalchoiceinrelationtohealthbehaviorsisanimporta
[originaltext]AmyJohnsonwasaveryambitiousandenergeticperson.Shedi
[audioFiles]audio_eusm_j64_001(20082)[/audioFiles]A、Shereallycannotlearnmat
[audioFiles]audio_eusm_j81_001(20082)[/audioFiles]A、Shecannotfinishherwork.
随机试题
Whollyasidefromaestheticandmoralconsiderations,fashionisaneconomi
Inthepastcertaintime,hemadeamistakewhichheevenregretstoday,buthe
[originaltext]M:Speakingofthesubjectoftoday,(12)whatchangeshaveyousee
建立工程项目标准体系的目的是()。A.规范项目的科学管理 B.实现企业的标准
给定教师关系Teacher(Tno,Tname,Deptname,Tel)
治疗哮喘肾虚不纳证的首选方剂是()A.右归饮 B.金匮肾气丸 C.
对于LDL-C的测定意义,正确的是A:反映LDL中胆固醇的量B:完全可以反映L
(2021年真题)下列各项中,属于长期待摊费用的是()。A.租入的使用权资
A. B. C. D.
某水电站大坝为混凝土双曲拱坝,坝高240m,总库容58亿m3,装机容量6×55
最新回复
(
0
)