Anger often makes us uncomfortable. It’s uncomfortable to witness and uncomf

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问题 Anger often makes us uncomfortable. It’s uncomfortable to witness and uncomfortable to feel. Witnessing your child’s anger can be especially uncomfortable. In order to【C1】______this feeling, parents will often encourage children to "stop crying".
The " stop crying" parent is just doing what they were taught by their own parents. While telling your child to "stop crying" is【C2】______child abuse in itself, your child may still need help with depression,【C3】______, or other issues later in life. This cycle can be stopped, however, if we learn how to create healthier anger in our kids, and in ourselves.
To understand why stuffing emotions away is unhealthy, think of emotions like they are【C4】______wounds. When you cut your finger, your body knows to【C5】______blood vessels and release white blood cells. In order to let your cut finger heal, you’ve got to let the body’s natural process work. Like the body, the psyche knows what needs to happen to【C6】______the emotional wounds. To let your mind heal, you’ve got to let yourself go through a healing process as well. If you don’t let yourself heal, whenever a similar event happens in your life, the old emotions will【C7】______and cause you pain. Until you learn to examine your feelings and let them go, they’ll act like cuts that never close.
When we find our anger too uncomfortable to process and let go, we set that model for our children to copy. If a child never sees his or her parent express anger, the parent teaches that child that they, too, should never express anger. Or, if a parent always expresses his/her anger loudly and【C8】______, the child may start to think of anger as something that is always frightening.
The first thing you can do to create healthier anger in your children is to practice creating healthier anger in yourself. Try mindfulness exercises to start feeling more comfortable when being angry. It’s our【C9】______to anger that often makes our anger worse. Once you’re better at experiencing anger and expressing it in a【C10】______way, you’ll be able to model a good anger style for your kids.
A)accept I)hurtfully
B)addiction J)insistence
C)emerge K)pessimistic
D)emotional L)physical
E)express M)relieve
F)heal N)resistance
G)healthy O)tighten
H)heartedly [br] 【C8】

选项

答案 I

解析该空格位于and之后，与loudly形成并列关系，因此空格处应填入副词。根据句意，如果有家长总是大声地、有害地表达自己的愤怒情绪，那么他们的孩子往往会觉得发怒十分可怕，故答案为I)hurtfully“有害地”。备选项中，H)heartedly“放在心上地”与上下文语义不符，故排除。

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