首页
登录
职称英语
[originaltext] I believe that one of the best ways to connect with people and
[originaltext] I believe that one of the best ways to connect with people and
游客
2023-08-12
75
管理
问题
I believe that one of the best ways to connect with people and build quality relationships is through making conversation. Although most people can hold a conversation, only a few are smooth and charismatic when they talk.
Working as a communication coach, I have explored and tested many techniques for improving conversation skills. I have discovered some simple and effective ways to be a smooth talker. Here they are:
First, talk slowly. Typically, good talkers don’t rush into a conversation. (20)They take their time when they reflect on something and when they say it out loud. They act as if they have all the time in the world. This makes them come off as centered and collected. Model this way of talking and you will create the same effect.
Second, hold more eye contact. Most people keep eye contact about 2/3 of the time or less when they talk. In my experience, it’s a very good idea to hold eye contact just a bit more than that. This will convey confidence and interest in interacting with them.
Third, notice the details. People with good conversation skills tend to notice the kind of things that the average person doesn’t notice, and to bring such details into the conversation. (21)They may notice and point out an interesting ring on the other person’s hand, a certain foreign accent, or a certain voice tone they use when saying a name. Thus, such individuals impress people in a very elegant manner.
Fourth, give unique compliments. Anybody can pay a generic compliment to try and get another person’s appreciation. Charismatic people on the other hand are able to really pay attention to others, to look beyond the facade and thus, pay unique compliments. Do the same and besides wooing others, you may even help them find out things about themselves they didn’t know.
Fifth, express your emotions. It’s very rare to meet a person who is comfortable talking about their emotions and how certain things make them feel, especially with strangers. Yet this way of talking is a real virtue. Don’t just present the facts, you’re not a newspaper. Express your feelings about those facts. Keep in mind that it is at the emotional level that people connect best.
Sixth, offer interesting insights. Anybody can talk about the news or express basic opinions. (22)But good talkers can frequently tell you things you didn’t know and that you’ll find fascinating. This is why it’s good to have knowledge into fields such as psychology or sociology, and bring such knowledge out at the right moments in a conversation.
Questions 20 to 22 are based on the recording you have just heard.
20. What makes good talkers appear centered and collected?
21. How will people feel if someone points out details about them?
22. Why is it good to have knowledge into fields like psychology or sociology?
选项
A、They will feel annoyed.
B、They will be surprised.
C、They will feel intimated.
D、They will be impressed by them.
答案
D
解析
转载请注明原文地址:https://tihaiku.com/zcyy/2918819.html
相关试题推荐
[originaltext]Whyshouldyouconsidertakingacourseindemographyincoll
[originaltext][19]SwedenwasthefirstEuropeancountrytoprintandusep
[originaltext][19]SwedenwasthefirstEuropeancountrytoprintandusep
[originaltext][16]Well,mycurrentresearchisreallyaboutconsumerbehav
[originaltext][16]Well,mycurrentresearchisreallyaboutconsumerbehav
[originaltext][13]MostAmericansdon’teatenoughfruits,vegetablesorwh
[originaltext][9]Whenfacinganewsituation,somepeopletendtorehearse
[originaltext]W:Mr.DeKeyzer,I’magreatloverofyourbookMomentsBeforet
[originaltext]W:Mr.DeKeyzer,I’magreatloverofyourbookMomentsBeforet
[originaltext]W:Mr.DeKeyzer,I’magreatloverofyourbookMomentsBeforet
随机试题
下面你将听到一段有关青少年发展的讲话。[originaltext]Today,thereare1.8billionyoungpeo
ThereisprogresstowardapossibletreatmentforlungdiseasessuchasSARS
三相负序电压中,A相超前B相()度A.0 B.180 C.120
患者男性,72岁。9年前开始经常出现咳嗽、咳痰,近1年来症状加重,咳嗽、咳痰喘息
超低出生体重儿(ELBW)是指A.出生体重不足2000g的新生儿 B.出生体重
标准正态分布的均值和标准差分别为()A.0,1 B.1,0 C.0,0
A.脑栓塞 B.脑血栓形成 C.脑出血 D.TIA E.蛛网膜下腔出血患
_________是社会现象,是人类特有的交流工具,是交流的双方共同使用的;__
埃博拉病毒仅存在于长臂猿的体内,这种病毒对长臂猿无害但对人类却是无药可医。虽然长
《突发公共卫生事件应急条例》正式实施的时间是A.2002年5月1日 B.200
最新回复
(
0
)