首页
登录
职称英语
[originaltext] You think it’s a good idea; she doesn’t. You want to take act
[originaltext] You think it’s a good idea; she doesn’t. You want to take act
游客
2023-07-15
43
管理
问题
You think it’s a good idea; she doesn’t. You want to take action; she wants to wait. You want this; she wants that. You’re absolutely sure you’re right; she’s even more sure she is.
If you and this co-worker don’t reach a compromise soon, you’ll both be too defensive and angry to reach one at all.
The window of opportunity for reaching compromises is a small one even between good friends, so sit back, take five or six deep breaths, and start communicating.
Start listening, as well as talking.
Compromise is "a settlement of differences in which each side makes concessions", says the American Heritage Dictionary.
If you’re trying to reach a compromise, a good first step is to define your goal and encourage the other person to do the same. Then share any information that might help you to reach a compromise.
A good second step is to listen carefully to the other person’s point of view. Don’t interrupt. Don’t agree or disagree. This will not only ensure that you understand her point of view, but will also demonstrate that you’re willing to listen to what she has to say.
Next, pat aside any preconceived notions you have about the "right" way to accomplish your goals. Then force yourself to think of at least one other way to accomplish them that incorporates your and her best suggestions.
Don’t think vertically, in other words: one-up-one-down, or I’m-right-you’re-wrong. Think laterally, instead; place her idea and yours on a straight line, side by side, and add more ideas as she and you come up with them.
You’ll end up with TWO good ideas in the pot yours and your co-worker’s. And when two reasonable people are willing to compromise, they’re likely to come up with a third way of accomplishing goals—one that satisfies both.
选项
A、The best relationship between co-workers.
B、A third way of accomplishing goals.
C、Useful information to be shared among co-workers.
D、Heated discussion between the co-workers.
答案
B
解析
转载请注明原文地址:https://tihaiku.com/zcyy/2838297.html
相关试题推荐
[originaltext]Gamblersmayhavedifferentlifestylesandbettinghabits,bu
[originaltext]Gamblersmayhavedifferentlifestylesandbettinghabits,bu
[originaltext]Richard:Hello,Bob.Bob:Hello,Richard.Howareyou?Richard:F
[originaltext]Richard:Hello,Bob.Bob:Hello,Richard.Howareyou?Richard:F
[originaltext]Richard:Hello,Bob.Bob:Hello,Richard.Howareyou?Richard:F
[originaltext]M:Hello.W:Hello,Sam...thisisPaulaHansen.Sorrytobothery
[originaltext]M:Hello.W:Hello,Sam...thisisPaulaHansen.Sorrytobothery
[originaltext]M:DoyouhaveclassesonWednesday,Liza?W:No,Idon’t.Anysu
[originaltext]M:DoyouhaveclassesonWednesday,Liza?W:No,Idon’t.Anysu
[originaltext]M:DoyouhaveclassesonWednesday,Liza?W:No,Idon’t.Anysu
随机试题
[originaltext]W:Haveyoumanagedtoassemblethemachineyet?M:I’vebeenstudy
[originaltext]W:SothisistheInternet?M:Well,it’stheWorldWideWeb,whi
TheCrowBlackfoot,andSiouxtribes(traditionally)adorned(they)dwellingsan
期货交易者根据进入期货市场的目的不同,可分为()。A、套期保值者B、投机者C、个人D、会员A,B期货交易者根据进入期货市场的目的不同,可分为套期
解决问题的基本过程是( )。A.发现问题——理解问题——提出假设——检验假设
黄老师组织幼儿全班幼儿参观小学后,请每位幼儿将自己参观小学的感受、体会或愿望用图
以下哪些可以作为相对估值法的指标()。 Ⅰ.市盈率 Ⅱ.市净率 Ⅲ.
对表证较轻,喘咳较重的患者首选A:炙麻黄B:生麻黄C:麻黄绒D:蜜炙麻黄绒
作为主体的我对自己以及自己与周围事物的关系的意识称为()。
农产品具有的需求的特殊性包括()。A.农产品需求具有派生性 B.农产品需求价
最新回复
(
0
)