首页
登录
职称英语
Being assertive is being able to communicate with other people clearly. If y
Being assertive is being able to communicate with other people clearly. If y
游客
2023-12-28
38
管理
问题
Being assertive is being able to communicate with other people clearly. If you felt that you had expressed what was important to you and allowed the【C1】______person to respond in their own way then,【C2】___________the final outcome, you behaved【C3】______. It is important to【C4】______that being assertive refers to a way of【C5】______confrontations. It does not mean getting your own way every time or winning some【C6】______against another person.【C7】________, assertive behaviour is usually most likely to produce a result which is generally acceptable to【C8】______, without anyone feeling that they have been unfairly treated.
Assertiveness is often wrongly confused with【C9】______. An aggressive confrontation is when one or both parties attempt to put forward their feelings and beliefs【C10】________others. In an assertive confrontation, however, each party【C11】______their personal rights, but each shows respect and understanding for the other’s viewpoint.
The reason why assertiveness may not come【C12】______is that we often tend to believe that we must【C13】______a subject rather than be direct, or that we must offer excuses or【C14】______for our actions.
In fact, we all have a right to use assertive behaviour in【C15】______situations. We are often【C16】______early in life to believe that sometimes our own need to express ourselves must【C17】______. For example, in dealing with those in【C18】______positions such as specialists, we often feel that speaking assertively is, in some way, "【C19】______". Everybody has certain basic human rights, but often we feel【C20】______about exercising them. [br] 【C6】
Being assertive is being able to communicate with other people clearly. If you felt that you had expressed what was important to you and allowed the oilier person to respond in their own way then, regardless of the final outcome, you behaved assertively. It is important to remember that being assertive refers to a way of coping with confrontations. It does not mean getting your own way every time or winning some battle of wits against another person. In practice, assertive behaviour is usually most likely to produce a result which is generally acceptable to all concerned, without anyone feeling that they have been unfairly treated.
Assertiveness is often wrongly confused with aggression. An aggressive confrontation is when one or both parties attempt to put forward their feelings and beliefs at the expense of others. In an assertive confrontation, however, each party stands up for their personal rights, but each shows respect and understanding for the other’s viewpoint.
The reason why assertiveness may not come naturally is that we often tend to believe that we must talk around a subject rather than be direct, or that we must offer excuses or justification for our actions.
In fact, we all have a right to use assertive behaviour in a variety of situations. We are often schooled early in life to believe that sometimes our own need to express ourselves must take secondary place. For example, in dealing with those in privileged positions such as specialists, we often feel that speaking assertively is, in some way, "breaking the rules". Everybody has certain basic human rights, but often we feel guilty about exercising them.
Passage 8
One of the most basic moral values for Americans is honesty. The well-known legend about George Washington and the cherry tree teaches this value clearly. Little George cut down his father’s favorite cherry tree while trying out his new hatchet. When his father asked him about it, George said, "I cannot tell a lie. I did it with my hatchet." Instead of punishment, George received praise for telling the truth. Sometimes American honesty—being open and direct—can offend people. But Americans still believe that "honesty is the best policy."
Another virtue Americans respect is perseverance. Remember Aesop’s fable about the turtle and the rabbit that had a race? The rabbit thought he could win easily, so he took a nap. But the turtle finally won because he did not give up. Another story tells of a little train that had to climb a steep hill. The hill was so steep that the little train had a hard time trying to get over it. But the train just kept pulling, all the while saying, "I think I can. I think I can." At last, the train was over the top of the hill. "I thought I could. I thought I could," chugged the happy little train.
Compassion may be the queen of American virtues. The story of "The Good Samaritan" from the Bible describes a man who showed compassion. On his way to a certain city, a Samaritan man found a poor traveler lying on the road. The traveler had been beaten and robbed. The kind Samaritan, instead of just passing by, stopped to help this person in need.
Compassion can even turn into a positive cycle. In fall 1992, people in Iowa sent truckloads of water to help Floridians hit by a hurricane. The next summer, during the Midwest flooding, Florida returned the favor. In less dramatic ways, millions of Americans are quietly passing along the kindnesses shown to them.
选项
答案
battle of wits
解析
转载请注明原文地址:http://tihaiku.com/zcyy/3312904.html
相关试题推荐
TheblackpeopledidnotvoteinAmericain1941.[br][originaltext]WhenH
TheblackpeopledidnotvoteinAmericain1941.[br][originaltext]WhenH
TheblackpeopledidnotvoteinAmericain1941.[br][originaltext]WhenH
TheblackpeopledidnotvoteinAmericain1941.[br][originaltext]WhenH
TheblackpeopledidnotvoteinAmericain1941.[br][originaltext]WhenH
TheblackpeopledidnotvoteinAmericain1941.[originaltext]WhenHenryt
Whatkindofpeoplewereearlycolonialnewspapersdesignedfor?[br][original
Whatkindofpeoplewereearlycolonialnewspapersdesignedfor?[originaltext]
TheCommissionisexpectedtoproposeallowingpeopletochoosewhichlegal
TheCommissionisexpectedtoproposeallowingpeopletochoosewhichlegal
随机试题
AccordingtoagroupcalledtheVoicesFoundation,everyonehasasingingvo
[originaltext]W:John,haveyouchosenaphysicaleducationclassyetforthis
甲公司属于增值税一般纳税人,2013年1月1日,甲公司应收账款的借方余额为300
下列不属于多肽类抗生素的是()A:去甲万古霉素 B:利奈唑胺 C:多黏菌素B
个体品德的核心部分是( )。A.道德认识 B.道德情感 C.道德意志 D
形盛气衰的表现是A.体胖能食,肌肉坚实 B.体胖食少,神疲乏力 C.形瘦能食
哪种中药有解毒、止痛、开窍醒神的功效A.硫黄B.硼砂C.蟾酥D.常山E.明矾
某通信项目2010年初投入资金150万元,2011年初又投入100万元,项目计算
仓库成为生产和消费领域中物资集散的中心环节,其功能已不单纯是保管、储存。从现代物
关于管道安装现场条件的表述,正确的是()。A.管道组成件及管道支承件等已检
最新回复
(
0
)