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I was addressing a small gathering in a suburban Virginia living room—a wome
I was addressing a small gathering in a suburban Virginia living room—a wome
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2023-10-31
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I was addressing a small gathering in a suburban Virginia living room—a women’s group that had invited men to join them. Throughout the evening, one man had been particularly talkative, frequently offering ideas and anecdotes, while his wife sat silently beside him on the couch. Toward the end of the evening, I commented that women frequently complain that their husbands don’t talk to them. This man quickly nodded in agreement. He gestured toward his wife and said, "She’s the talker in our family." The room burst into laughter; the man looked puzzled and hurt. "It’s true," he explained. "When I come home from work, I have nothing to say. If she didn’t keep the conversation going, we’d spend the whole evening in silence."
This episode crystallizes the irony that although American men tend to talk more than women in public situations, they often talk less at home. And this pattern is wreaking havoc with marriage.
The pattern was observed by political scientist Andrew Hacker in the late 1970s. Sociologist Catherine Kohler Riessman reports in her new book Divorce Talk that most of the women she interviewed—but only a few of the men—gave lack of communication as the reason for their divorces. Given the current divorce rate of nearly 50 percent, that amounts to millions of cases in the United States every year—a virtual epidemic of failed conversation.
In my own research, complaints from women about their husbands most often focused not on tangible inequities such as having given up the chance for a career to accompany a husband to his, or doing far more than their share of daily life-support work like cleaning, cooking and social arrangements. Instead, they focused on communication: "He doesn’t listen to me." "He doesn’t talk to me." I found, as Hacker observed years before, that most wives want their husbands to be, first and foremost, conversational partners, but few husbands share this expectation of their wives.
In short, the image that best represents the current crisis is the stereotypical cartoon scene of a man sitting at the breakfast table with a newspaper held up in front of his face, while a woman glares at the back of it, wanting to talk. [br] All of the following are true EXCEPT
选项
A、men tend to talk more in public than women.
B、nearly 50 percent of recent divorces are caused by failed conversation.
C、women attach much importance to communication between couples.
D、a female tends to be more talkative at home than her spouse.
答案
B
解析
B中的50 percent及divorces出现在第3段末。该段说到大部分女性都认为缺乏沟通是导致离婚的原因,而当前的离婚率高达50%,没有说50%的离婚是由于沟通不善而造成的,故B与文意不符,为答案。由第2段首句的内容可知A、D与文意相符(男性在公众场合健谈,女性则在家里更健谈)。由第4段的内容及关键词focused on communication和conversational partners可知,女性很重视夫妻间的沟通,故C与文意相符。
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