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The word "open" is really used a lot. You’ve probably heard "open up" in man
The word "open" is really used a lot. You’ve probably heard "open up" in man
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2024-09-15
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The word "open" is really used a lot. You’ve probably heard "open up" in many ways over the years. Probably most people would like to be more open than they are right now. We know it feels good to share with others. If feels good to talk to somebody about things we’re concerned about. It’s good to be able to trust somebody.
What do we really mean by becoming open? Well, trying to talk about yourself in such a way that something of the inner person, that is you, is communicated to others might be one way of being open or at least thinking about being open. That inner person is a complex person who has a variety of thoughts and also feelings. So, wanting to share with other people these inner feelings and these inner thoughts is one way of becoming open. Being open is a kind of invitation to others. What you share about yourself should encourage others to come in, so to speak and make contact with you. To involve themselves with you. Being open is difficult. It makes us feel vulnerable, psychologically naked and usually anxious. But it also is important in terms of really letting others get to understand how we think, how we feel and what we believe We often hide our inner thoughts and feelings because we’re concerned how well excepted they’ll be by other people. But we also shut out other people from knowing and accepting us by not being open. We’re denying ourselves that chance to speak out, to declare our inner thoughts and feelings. It’s up to you to decide just how you’re going to talk about yourself and what you’re going to say. Telling somebody that school or work is awful. However, it might be more meaningful to share why you’re saying that about school or work. That’s at a little deeper level.
There are probably more risks attached to sharing that. Probably most important is an immediate here and now honesty that goes along with being open. For instance, telling someone that you’re bored is risky, but it takes courage to say, "I’m bored, why don’t we do such and such?" , or "Let’s change topics. "For me, declaring your boredom or resentments also means I’m responsible for suggesting alternatives to change my mood. You have the power to change things by being open and sharing things.
Keep in mind also that being completely open with everyone in every situation may be very inappropriate. You may want to be more open with your spouse or close friends, but not with your boss or people you don’t know as well. You may choose not to be open with people you don’t fully trust, because to be open is to share vulnerable information about yourself. And if you don’t fully trust how someone else will use that information about you, you may choose not to share it. Also, some people may be very uncomfortable with too much openness and you may not want to be as open with them.
A caution about being open is that sometimes we can be too open. In the name of being open we say everything we feel or think to others. But fail to be sensitive to others feelings about our openness. We may make them feel very uncomfortable or say something that hurts them. Being open also carries a responsibility with it and that is to be aware of others’ reactions to us and to respect their reactions. [br] According to the passage, which of the following is CORRECT?
选项
A、Being open means to tell others not only your inner feelings, but also what gives rise to these feelings.
B、Most people don’t want to become open.
C、Telling that the present topic makes you feel bored will irritate your partner.
D、Becoming open helps you establish credits with others.
答案
A
解析
推理题。文中提到你告诉别人说,学习和工作情况很糟糕。但是,如果你还说出情况很糟糕的原因,那就更有意义了。这便是更深的层次了。由此可以判断,[A]“不但要告诉别人内心的感受,还要分享为什么会有这些感受”正确。[C]“坦诚地告诉别人目前的话题很无聊会激怒说话的人”与文意不符。文中的意思是,虽然这样做有风险,但是如果表达了意见之后能够提出更好的话题则会有良好的效果;[B]“大部分人不希望坦诚”、[D]“坦诚会经常帮助你和别人建立信任”并未在原文中明确体现,故排除。
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