[originaltext]M: My grandma was killed in a car accident last week. May I ask f

M: My grandma was killed in a car accident last week. May I ask for absence for several days? I have to go back home.
W: So sorry to hear that. That must inflict lots of pain on you as I myself once experienced it.
Q: What does the woman mean?

W: English songs with a quicker rhythm are difficult for me to learn. I have been learning this song for hours.
M: Do not waste your energy on things for which you don’t have the talent. I always feel you are better at manual work.
Q: What does the man suggest the woman do?