首页
登录
职称英语
Emotional maturity means knowing that another person cannot fill up the hole
Emotional maturity means knowing that another person cannot fill up the hole
游客
2023-09-14
38
管理
问题
Emotional maturity means knowing that another person cannot fill up the hole in your heart. That is your responsibility. You need to love and affirm yourself day - by - day, moment - by - moment. That is the spiritual challenge of your life and everybody’ s life. Without your love for yourself, nothing works. No amount of love from your partner is enough. The search for love from other people is like the alcoholic’ s search for happiness in a bottle. The more he drinks, the less satisfied he feels and the more he wants to drink.
We are all addicted to falling in love. But after we’ ve "fallen" a few times and broken our emotional bones, we hopefully wise up a bit. We know that the high of falling in love is not going to last. We know that sooner or later we will have to get real with each other. That is the difference between romance and partnership. Romance is an attempt to keep the addiction going. It has a very short half- life. Partnership is the dance of two ordinary people learning to live together day by day. It is a very challenging school that we enroll in. It is sometimes a lot more work than play. And it certainly requires a lot more psychological adjustment than years of therapy! We don’ t just graduate from this school in a year or two. It takes many years, perhaps even a lifetime, for us to master the curriculum.
Your partners are imperfect human beings, just like you. They were not the "wrong" partners any more than you were. Probably, they reflected your own level of realism and emotional maturity. That’ s usually the way it works. So don’t waste your time thinking you simply made some bad choices. The only bad choice you made was forgetting who has the full time job loving you. I know that you know who this is !
We keep remembering that they are not perfect, nor we are. Love is not a game of perfection. It is a game of overwhelming imperfection. The amazing thing is that love survives all of our mistaken attempts to control our partners and our relationships. [br] Which of the following is NOT true according to the passage?
选项
A、Some people regret their choices of love partners.
B、In some partnership or relationship, he or she tries to control the other.
C、Through psychological adjustment and therapy, one will feel satisfied with love.
D、Partnership is a school from which it is not easy for us to graduate.
答案
C
解析
C选项曲解了原文第二段:And it certainly requires a lot more psychological adjustment than years of therapy!故为本题正确答案。A,B,D选项符合原文意思,故为错误答案。
转载请注明原文地址:https://tihaiku.com/zcyy/3014125.html
相关试题推荐
TracysaidtheworkwouldbedonebyJuly,________personallyIdoubtverymuch
Walkingintoabusinessandaskingforanapplicationisanother(effect)______
Wecaneliminatepollutioncompletelybytheyearof2008.[br]Wecannotsolve
【S1】[br]【S3】other→another从上个分句中的onepiece和下个分句中的thenext可知,这是在进行三者之间的比较,anothe
[audioFiles]audio_eusm_j94_001(20082)[/audioFiles]A、Themancancomeanotherti
【S1】[br]【S3】other→another从上个分句中的,onepiece和下个分句中的thenext可知,这是在进行三者之间的比较,anoth
Menarenotoriouslyinsensitivetotheemotionalworldaroundthem.Atleast
[originaltext]AmyJohnsonwasaveryambitiousandenergeticperson.Shedi
[originaltext]AmyJohnsonwasaveryambitiousandenergeticperson.Shedi
[originaltext]AmyJohnsonwasaveryambitiousandenergeticperson.Shedi
随机试题
Youshouldspendabout20minutesonQuestions1-13,whicharebasedonReading
Oneofthefirstthingsthatshouldstrikeanyhalfobservantparentisthe
Heshowedgreat(wise)______inwhathesaidanddid.wisdomshow是及物动词,其后应接名词或者
[originaltext]Weallknowsleepmattersforjobperformanceassleepaffectsat
Todaywetakeforgrantedthatthemailwillbedelivereddailyatour
埋地管工程管线距建筑物基础有最小距离要求,下列管线中要求该距离最大的是( )。
违反法律、行政法规或者中国证监会有关规定,采取隐瞒、编造重要事实等特别恶劣手段,
地方城建档案部门职责包括()。A:负责在工程建设过程中对工程档案进行检查并签署
关于旅游保险的保险责任下列说法不正确的是( )。A.因旅行社的疏忽或过失造成旅
( )属于外部招募方法。A.发布广告 B.校园招聘 C.借助中介
最新回复
(
0
)